Still waiting for my daughter to be assessed

She’s a daddy‘s girl, her dad‘s got cancer. She doesn’t wanna talk to nobody about it her that treat her like she’s a big girl. I treat her like a child I put structure and boundaries. He doesn’t have none of that I have consistency when she plays up he doesn’t have none of that. He’s the fun guy I’m the bad guy he believes everything that she says and not what I say so she can get away with murder and her dad will always believe her and have a go at me her behaviour with the screaming, the banging the shouting destroying everything in our room. The don’t care, the fighting me, the fighting her sister which is with her doubt she doesn’t do that The latest one she doesn’t wanna go to school she screams she shouts. I’ve got next door neighbours that called the police on me now that makes me feel like I’m a shit mum that makes me feel like I’m a piece of shit that I’m nothing I asked for help That I’m getting way, I’ve been calling her dad this morning because she decided she
Not to go into school, the school knows already about her behaviour. She’s got a social worker as well. She’s a load of rubbish as well as I’m concerned so is the Skool because all the easy keep keep doing what you’re doing until we get her her appointments come through for her assessments, I need a break, I can’t do no more I can’t take the scream I can’t take the shout and I can’t take the banging my house is getting damaged. She’s broken everything in every room that could break my body can’t take no more punches and heats, I can’t keep walking on eggshells , I don’t know where to go no more for how I need her behaviour to stop or calm down