Ridiculous fight for advice
The breastfeeding advice I received for my first child was abysmal and by that I mean that I received none at all for over two days and then, when I did receive advice, it was only a short-term fix. I wanted to breastfeed and brought no formula to the hospital. I did bring some expressed colostrum. My son was born via emergency caesarean, so I was struggling mentally, emotionally, and physically in ways I never anticipated after giving birth. Someone saw him latch and assumed that he was feeding well. Later, I couldn't get him to feed. Instead of helping me learn to feed my baby, hospital staff gave me a giant pumping machine and left me to it. I was sore and anxious after emergency surgery and soon had sore boobs from using incorrectly sized phalanges. I was leaking out colostrum to feed my baby with a syringe and no one told me I should do anything differently. I carried on for two days and finally asked a student midwife why I hadn't yet be discharged. She said that no one had seen me feed my baby. I was irate. Up until then, no one had even hinted that I couldn't be discharged soon, and no one had offered help. I demanded (probably none too politely) to see someone who could help me learn to feed. Finally, a breastfeeding consultant came and gave me a nipple guard. My nipples were large and flat, so this helped. I was told to use it as long as I needed. Finally, I was discharged. For a week, breastfeeding was awful. My boobs were sore and my nipples were chapped. The nipple guard helped my baby to latch, but it was not improving my pain. I got free help online from La Leche League. I was told to ditch the nipple guard ASAP so my son didn't become dependent on it. After a couple of painful days, our breastfeeding drastically improved and it was a breeze for the next 20 months until we stopped. I breastfeed my second with no trouble, and much less trauma, but I never had to ask for advice the second time. I've warned every pregnant woman I know to demand breastfeeding advice ASAP and to not take no for an answer. It's ridiculous to have to fight for such basic advice.